lets do lunch

going to see an old friend for lunch tomorrow. she has already been through the divorce thing and gotten it done, and her xh is worse than mine with the drinking and inability to hold down a job end of it. honestly though i think xh's gf is reason he is not falling in a gutter right now. he was a whorey mess after we split. he even rationalized bringing ds#1 to a bar and teaching him to play pool - "they serve food and it's still light out." i cannot make this up. i am not that creative. had a lot on the mind lately. spent two days on phone with unemployment office hearing a busy tone and "no representatives are available at this time. please visit us online or CALL BACK LATER. click. got put on hold once but it hung up on me, so no unemployment check this week and i am broke. start working again soon but no check til september. looking forward to having my own place. i adore my gf but we all need our own space and i really want my own home. after years of living with xh moving furniture every week and letting drug addled freaks wander through the house whenever i am looking forward to drug free decor. so, Dear Old Friend, can't wait to see you. haven't really seen her much since i came out. that is all a story for another blog that needs to be told. just not right now.